The Wonderful Reflection of God that’s Exhibited in a Good Mother!

Proverbs 31:26.       She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY! 

And it’s another Sunday in the life, but a special one, in that we celebrate that oh so important activity termed Motherhood, that’s been with us from the beginning of time, and will still be around at the end. (smile) And don’t ever think it’s a simple or easy task, for it’s one of the most difficult and unrewarding tasks in this world, because mothers are the cornerstone of our family unit, and they not only carry us in their womb, then painfully give birth to us, they are also responsible for rearing us, even till we sometimes become old and grey, because a mother’s job is never done.

Once they have a child alive, their thoughts and efforts are usually focused on that person to whom they’ve given birth, because that’s just the make-up of a mother. She was born to care! And there are so many facets to her LOVE and compassion, her thoughtfulness and kindness, goodness and mercy, forgiving and longsuffering, that she comes closest to God amongst the human race.  And yes, there are many mothers who don’t have an ounce of true motherhood in them, but overall, most do a wonderful job, as the female of the species has the most difficult and unenviable task of procreating and nurturing the young of the species.

And having paid some homage to mothers, let’s now raise our voices in sweet sacrifices of praise in this tribute song on their behalf, simply and most appropriately titled ‘MY MOTHER’S LOVE.’ The song was written by Janice Kapp Perry (born October 1, 1938) an American composer, songwriter, and author.  She was a member of a very musical family, and also a member of the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square, formerly known as the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. Today’s version follows that done by the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square. Slow and soulful, hauntingly beautiful, ever so rich and scintillating, very appropriate for a Mother’s Day Tribute.  

(Singing: ‘My mother’s voice, the power of her teachings, Live in my soul and guide me still today. Her caring ways, her timeless words of wisdom Come forth to help me through each day. In each challenge, each choice, Above the world’s noise, I hear my mother’s voice. My mother’s faith, her prayers of earnest pleading, Turned me to God in moments of despair. Her calm assurance of His tender caring Taught me to turn to Him in prayer. Through my darkest of days I reach to feel His grace. Such was my mother’s faith.

My mother’s hands that lifted and protected, Those LOVING hands that soothed my fevered brow Were as a shield from every earthly trial, And still, the memory helps me now. And my heart is aware, the strength that I now share Came from my mother’s hands. My mother’s voice will live in me forever. A steady anchor for my reaching soul, As generations climb the path together to sweet eternities untold. My mother’s LOVE, the essence of her being, Flows in and through me every waking hour. A quiet strength grew from her constant caring, A legacy of saving power. By her words and her touch, she strengthened me so much. I felt my mother’s LOVE… I felt my mother’s LOVE.” 

Oh friends, what a beautiful rendition! And the lyrics are ever so touching and sound like how real mothers are. In fact, Ms. Kapp says that she wrote the song with her own mother in mind, and continues: ‘If you had a good mother, she’s your inspiration for the song. My mother’s LOVE was the basis of everything good in my life. She was always there for me. My mother Ruth was a very enthusiastic and energetic person. She LOVED projects, played in a dance band with their father, and wrote musicals for the community. As far as her children were concerned, she was just a cheerleader. She LOVED everything they did. Made them feel like they could do things.’

Now that is the raison d’être; the reason or justification for a mother’s existence! And do I ever like how she planned the song; breaking it down in sections, like her ‘mother’s voice, the power of her teachings, that she could hear above the world’s noise. Then her mother’s faith, her prayers of earnest pleading, that taught her to turn to God in prayer. Her mother’s hands, that lifted and protected, LOVING hands that soothed her fevered brow, like a shield from every trial. And her mother’s voice, that will live in her forever, as a steady anchor for her reaching soul. 

Then finally, her mother’s LOVE, the essence of her being, which she still feels in every waking hour, while a quiet strength grew from her constant caring. And by her mother’s words and touch she was forever strengthened, and it all caused her to feel her mother’s LOVE! Now that’s a most wonderful thing when you can feel your mother’s LOVE! And I can testify to that experience all through my life, although it didn’t mean that my mother was always happy or satisfied with me, but that’s the forgiving and LOVING nature of a mother. Even when they are angry with you, their LOVE and caring still shines through. 

And there are several scriptures which show the attributes of a good mother, like this one where the Lord says through the prophet Isaiah: ‘As one whom his mother comforteth, so will I comfort you: and ye shall be comforted in Jerusalem.’ (Is. 66:13) Meanwhile in 1 Thessalonians, Bruh Paul ‘compares gentle, nurturing leadership to a nursing mother taking care of her children.’ ‘But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse (nursing mother) cherisheth her children.’ (1 Thess, 2:7) 

And in 2 Timothy he talks about the legacy of faith that is passed down from mother to child. ‘When I call to remembrance the unfeigned (genuine) faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am also persuaded that in thee also.’ (2 Tim. 1:5) But the crowning glory of a good mother and wife come from the wisest man ever, Cousin Sol, who had enough of them to know what he was talking about. (smile)

‘Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour (charm) is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.’ (Prov. 31:25-31)

Yes friends, those are some of the many attributes of a good mother. So, let’s give them the praise, LOVE and respect they deserve, not only today, but every day. So that they can keep on being good mothers, nurturing and comforting us. Much LOVE!

… a good mother is a human reflection of God…possessing most of His attributes…

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Today’s Scrip-Bit 15 May 2018 Proverbs 31:28.

Proverbs 31:28:   Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

‘I’m in heaven, yes heaven, cause I can once more breathe comfortably through my nostrils!’ Glory to God my breddren! I feel like a new man, after I went into the city yesterday afternoon and the medic took out some stuff left there after the surgery. The nostrils still aren’t perfect, but they are a whole lot better than they were. 

Boy! Does it ever feel like a new world! Like I’m born again! And believe me, it took a little while for me to get accustomed to breathing through my nose again. (smile) But unfortunately that cloying, chalky, nasty taste from constantly breathing through my mouth for the last two weeks is still there. I guess it will take a while to go away…Let’s hope so yes, because it’s rather distasteful! 

And I can certainly sleep a li’l better. I don’t have to wake up every hour or so to moisten my parched mouth. And talking about sleep, I did get lulled away by the beautiful riddim of the falling rain this morning, that’s why the Bit is somewhat late. (smile) 

And in keeping with our promise not to just celebrate our mothers on Mother’s Day, I know some of us have already forgotten it, here is this poem from our One Year Book of Bible Promises, with writings By Ruth Harms Calkin. It’s simply titled ‘Motherhood.’ 

Please read with me: ‘Motherhood is now! The good and bad of it. The rewards and the trials. Tremendous pressures are placed upon you as a mother, for you have been chosen to work with God in the awesome task of nurturing the priceless treasures God has given you. 

As a mother, you accept your children’s faltering steps toward independence with discipline, humour, patience, and a tremendous amount of trust. At times the struggles almost become an endurance contest. You wonder if you can handle all the confusion another day: the ringing phone, the broken dishes, the blaring television, the hurtful words. High temperatures, school conferences, dentist appointments, rebellious tears. Is there ever an end? 

But suddenly in the midst of turmoil you catch a broad grin. You feel a warm hug. At bedtime somebody prays, “Thank you, God, for Mom and for the chocolate-chip cookies…and for LOVE.” You renew again your deep desire to create a genuine God-hunger in your children. God has chosen you for such a task as this.’ 

Wow mih people! What an accurate account of a Mother’s harried life! And surprisingly, most of them do it without batting an eyelash or offering a complaining word. What towers of strength they are! That’s why I encourage us to cherish and treasure and LOVE them much more than we currently do! For without them, as they say, ‘our tail would be grass.’ (smile) 

And the Bible Promise for that poem is also our Bit for today. ‘Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.’ Yeh friends, that’s the reaction of a godly mother’s family. It all comes from the last chapter of Proverbs which sings the praises of a virtuous woman. 

As it says: ‘Who can find a virtuous woman (wife of valour)? For her price (worth) is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil (lack of gain). She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.’ (Prov.31:10-12) And I don’t know if I have enough space, but I will endeavour to describe the qualities of a godly mother, of an excellent wife, as set out in these last verses of Proverbs. 

‘She is rare (v 10); trustworthy (v.11); constant in her LOVE (v.12); industrious (v.13); thrifty (v.14); self-starting (v: 15); enterprising (v.16); willing to do hard work (v.17); willing to work long hours (v.18); willing to do monotonous work (v.19); compassionate (v.20); prepared for the future (v.21); a good seamstress (v.22); married to a leader (v.23); an entrepreneur (v.24); not swayed by circumstances (v.25); wise and kind (v.26); duty-conscious (v.27); blessed by her family (v.28); not satisfied with the mediocre (v.29); a woman of God (v.30) ; and praiseworthy (v.31). 

She is a woman of means (vs.15, 22) and a woman of great skill and ability who lives in an agrarian economy. She is a woman of God who is enterprising and dedicated to her home. Perhaps this acrostic on the excellent wife is placed at the end of the book because she, above all others, will be most able to demonstrate the principles of wisdom in the home.’ 

Ah friends, what more can I say about mothers eh? Nothing really. Yuh see the many varied tasks and problems she has to deal with. She is indeed the backbone of the family! So let’s try and do more to appreciate and LOVE her nuh, that’s our bounden duty. 

Now let’s go home declaring who and whose we are through our Tuesday Mantra. ‘I’m not what I do. I’m not what I have. I’m not what people say about me. I am the beloved of God, that’s who I am. No one can take that from me. I don’t have to worry. I don’t have to hurry. I can trust my friend Jesus and share His LOVE with the world.  Amen!’ 

And if we were sincere in our words, then let’s go out and share all we have with others as Jesus desires of us. Much LOVE!

…truthfully…a mother’s work is never done…