The Wonderful Reflection of God that’s Exhibited in a Good Mother!

Proverbs 31:26.       She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY! 

And it’s another Sunday in the life, but a special one, in that we celebrate that oh so important activity termed Motherhood, that’s been with us from the beginning of time, and will still be around at the end. (smile) And don’t ever think it’s a simple or easy task, for it’s one of the most difficult and unrewarding tasks in this world, because mothers are the cornerstone of our family unit, and they not only carry us in their womb, then painfully give birth to us, they are also responsible for rearing us, even till we sometimes become old and grey, because a mother’s job is never done.

Once they have a child alive, their thoughts and efforts are usually focused on that person to whom they’ve given birth, because that’s just the make-up of a mother. She was born to care! And there are so many facets to her LOVE and compassion, her thoughtfulness and kindness, goodness and mercy, forgiving and longsuffering, that she comes closest to God amongst the human race.  And yes, there are many mothers who don’t have an ounce of true motherhood in them, but overall, most do a wonderful job, as the female of the species has the most difficult and unenviable task of procreating and nurturing the young of the species.

And having paid some homage to mothers, let’s now raise our voices in sweet sacrifices of praise in this tribute song on their behalf, simply and most appropriately titled ‘MY MOTHER’S LOVE.’ The song was written by Janice Kapp Perry (born October 1, 1938) an American composer, songwriter, and author.  She was a member of a very musical family, and also a member of the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square, formerly known as the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. Today’s version follows that done by the Tabernacle Choir at Temple Square. Slow and soulful, hauntingly beautiful, ever so rich and scintillating, very appropriate for a Mother’s Day Tribute.  

(Singing: ‘My mother’s voice, the power of her teachings, Live in my soul and guide me still today. Her caring ways, her timeless words of wisdom Come forth to help me through each day. In each challenge, each choice, Above the world’s noise, I hear my mother’s voice. My mother’s faith, her prayers of earnest pleading, Turned me to God in moments of despair. Her calm assurance of His tender caring Taught me to turn to Him in prayer. Through my darkest of days I reach to feel His grace. Such was my mother’s faith.

My mother’s hands that lifted and protected, Those LOVING hands that soothed my fevered brow Were as a shield from every earthly trial, And still, the memory helps me now. And my heart is aware, the strength that I now share Came from my mother’s hands. My mother’s voice will live in me forever. A steady anchor for my reaching soul, As generations climb the path together to sweet eternities untold. My mother’s LOVE, the essence of her being, Flows in and through me every waking hour. A quiet strength grew from her constant caring, A legacy of saving power. By her words and her touch, she strengthened me so much. I felt my mother’s LOVE… I felt my mother’s LOVE.” 

Oh friends, what a beautiful rendition! And the lyrics are ever so touching and sound like how real mothers are. In fact, Ms. Kapp says that she wrote the song with her own mother in mind, and continues: ‘If you had a good mother, she’s your inspiration for the song. My mother’s LOVE was the basis of everything good in my life. She was always there for me. My mother Ruth was a very enthusiastic and energetic person. She LOVED projects, played in a dance band with their father, and wrote musicals for the community. As far as her children were concerned, she was just a cheerleader. She LOVED everything they did. Made them feel like they could do things.’

Now that is the raison d’être; the reason or justification for a mother’s existence! And do I ever like how she planned the song; breaking it down in sections, like her ‘mother’s voice, the power of her teachings, that she could hear above the world’s noise. Then her mother’s faith, her prayers of earnest pleading, that taught her to turn to God in prayer. Her mother’s hands, that lifted and protected, LOVING hands that soothed her fevered brow, like a shield from every trial. And her mother’s voice, that will live in her forever, as a steady anchor for her reaching soul. 

Then finally, her mother’s LOVE, the essence of her being, which she still feels in every waking hour, while a quiet strength grew from her constant caring. And by her mother’s words and touch she was forever strengthened, and it all caused her to feel her mother’s LOVE! Now that’s a most wonderful thing when you can feel your mother’s LOVE! And I can testify to that experience all through my life, although it didn’t mean that my mother was always happy or satisfied with me, but that’s the forgiving and LOVING nature of a mother. Even when they are angry with you, their LOVE and caring still shines through. 

And there are several scriptures which show the attributes of a good mother, like this one where the Lord says through the prophet Isaiah: ‘As one whom his mother comforteth, so will I comfort you: and ye shall be comforted in Jerusalem.’ (Is. 66:13) Meanwhile in 1 Thessalonians, Bruh Paul ‘compares gentle, nurturing leadership to a nursing mother taking care of her children.’ ‘But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse (nursing mother) cherisheth her children.’ (1 Thess, 2:7) 

And in 2 Timothy he talks about the legacy of faith that is passed down from mother to child. ‘When I call to remembrance the unfeigned (genuine) faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am also persuaded that in thee also.’ (2 Tim. 1:5) But the crowning glory of a good mother and wife come from the wisest man ever, Cousin Sol, who had enough of them to know what he was talking about. (smile)

‘Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour (charm) is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.’ (Prov. 31:25-31)

Yes friends, those are some of the many attributes of a good mother. So, let’s give them the praise, LOVE and respect they deserve, not only today, but every day. So that they can keep on being good mothers, nurturing and comforting us. Much LOVE!

… a good mother is a human reflection of God…possessing most of His attributes…

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Today’s Scrip-Bit 8 May 2016 2 Timothy 1:5

2 Timothy 1:5.   When I call to remembrance the unfeigned (genuine) faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also.

HAPPY  MOTHER’S  DAY!

Well a Happy Mother’s Day to all you wonderful mother’s out there! Many of you have earned it through much sacrifice and a lot of elbow grease. (smile) 

You know it’s strange, but a lot of the time we don’t ever really know what our mothers went through, or are going through to keep our families afloat, because they don’t gripe and complain like many of us. They just put their heads down and do whatever is necessary. 

I can talk about that from personal experience with my late mother Molly. As I got older and looked back at some of the rough times we experienced, I now understand how hard she must have had it as a single mother doing two jobs, or having no job at all, and the emotional strain she must have felt. But I never heard her complain one day. She always had a smile on her face and a positive outlook on life, even in those rough times. 

And it’s sad that we don’t appreciate our mothers as much as we should. Too many of us just take them for granted and don’t consider that they are human beings just like us with human feelings and hurts just like us. Our mothers are usually the first ones we run to for comfort when we’re hurt, either physically, mentally or emotionally. 

But have we ever thought about whom they run to when times are rough and they are hurting?  Many of us don’t even consider that, because for some unknown reason we have this idea of Mom as superwoman, who doesn’t need any help. Well friends, that’s the furthest thing from the truth! Some Mothers are pretty strong and can handle a lot of stuff, while others are not and need plenty help. 

But they ALL need our LOVE and appreciation. Ofttimes that’s all they want from us. And unfortunately we don’t give them sufficient appreciation, except on days like these. 

But mothers are such powerhouses, the basic foundation of our families, who bear us for nine months in the womb, then suffer such agony birthing us, and are then responsible for nurturing and raising us to adulthood – and even after. (smile)They are usually the ones who teach us the basics of life, who keep us tightly knit together as a bonded unit of family. What in the world would we ever do without them eh? I won’t even bother to contemplate it. 

Now not all mothers fit the model I’ve painted above, some can be downright disgusting and bring terrible shame to the role of motherhood. But most do a decent job, trying their best to accomplish their God-given roles as nurturers, comforters, guides and the host of other tasks that mothers perform, or are expected to perform. 

And in this nuclear society, sadly mothers are having it harder than ever before. At one stage they were mostly stay at home moms, but with the recent boom and bust in our world, mothers are now also going out to work to help make ends meet, with little help from many fathers – those who are around – and are still expected to do their usual motherly chores. 

There are even more single moms around than before; either through divorce or men simply impregnating them and moving on without a care as to how the mother and child or children will survive. All of that simply adds to the breakdown and failure of our most important unit in society; that of the family. No wonder our children are irresponsible, godless, lazy and immature, amongst other things. 

But if we turn to our Bit, we’ll discover one of the most important things a mother can give to her child or children; the unparalleled gift of faith in Almighty God. ‘When I call to remembrance the unfeigned (genuine) faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also.’ 

There Bruh Paul is encouraging Timothy to keep the sincere faith which he first learned at the knees of his mother Lois and his grandmother, Eunice. And teaching one’s family about God, and showing by personal example, is another job that usually falls to the mother in our Western Society. 

But yet for all these onerous duties, mothers, in fact women, are still not compensated, in cash or kind, not shown proper recognition and appreciation and treated as the equal of men. Ah Lord eh! Women still make less money than men, and relegated to lower class jobs even with better qualifications and more experience than their male counterparts. The Old Boy network is still running the world, and the glass ceiling for the advancement of professional women is still too low. 

And to make matters worse, abuse seems to be the order of the day in these supposed modern times. I don’t know if the abuse is actually on the rise or if it is just being highlighted more these days. But mothers shouldn’t have to be as fearful as they are and running away from abusive spouses in such great numbers. There are nowhere near enough shelters or programs to assist the abused mother today.  

Ah friends, mothers are the most important people in our society, and need to be appreciated and recognized as such. We men, who are all sons of mothers, ought to stop our selfish, male dominant traits and give God’s blessings and appreciation to the women in our lives, because they truly deserve better than what we’re currently handing out. 

You women too, you ought to try and stand up stronger to the abusive, feel-they-are-entitled men of today, and don’t let them push you around and treat you as doormats, as so many are wont to do. You also have a responsibility to yourself and womanhood in general. 

It’s the 21st century, and time to stop treating mothers, and women in general like second class citizens. So for all of you who have mothers, good, bad or indifferent, I urge you to show them LOVE and appreciation today, as they so rightfully deserve. And not only today, but each and every day of the year, because many of them are on the job 24/7, 365 days and need our appreciation and help. 

Trust me friends, if you still have your mother around, please enjoy her, just LOVE on her, for you will be real sorry and feel guilty when she goes over to the other side. I don’t have my mother here in person with me again, but Molls sugar, you know you are always on my mind and in my heart.  

And though I didn’t do too badly in our relationship, I still feel I could have done better than I did, knowing what I know now. But you know what; if you ask her, she’ll tell you that I was a most wonderful son! Hn! That’s another thing that mothers do. Have a blessed day, all you Mothers! Much LOVE!

…mothers are the closest thing to God on earth…they give life…offer comfort and succour, provide food and shelter…and teach us about God…   

P.S. Oh friends, in the beginning my mind was blank, didn’t know what to write. But as usual, with God’s help, look at how much I’ve written nuh! (smile) Hope it does make sense and encourages us to be better sons and daughter. Much LOVE!